Pull Up A Chair

I try to live in a way that reflects what I value.

I’ve worn a few hats—pastor, lecturer, college principal—but the thread running through them all is people. Listening to them, learning from them, helping them grow. I’m most at home when I’m building something that lasts: trust, community, clarity, hope.

I value listening more than speaking. It’s how people know they matter. It’s how I’ve found my way through complexity and change—by paying close attention.

I believe in building people up, not breaking them down. Everyone carries a story and a struggle. I’ve learned that identifying potential is more powerful than calling out mistakes.

I try to find beauty in quiet things: early mornings, handwritten notes, native plants edging out the weeds. A slow meal. A well-worn book. A team of students figuring out how to lead with kindness.

I want to live sustainably and generously. Not just in terms of the planet, but in time, attention, and forgiveness. I believe good things grow slowly, and that includes character.

And I trust that grace is not only real but active. I’ve made peace with imperfection. Mine. Others’. The world’s. But I keep leaning toward light.

If that’s the kind of person you’re looking to get to know—pull up a chair.

Daily writing prompt

How would you describe yourself to someone?

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